Dating & Relationships
Top 6 Techniques: How To Spice Up A Relationship
My husband and I have been married now for almost 27 years and, believe me, there are many times our relationship has needed a little spicing up – even after only a short time together! After all, who wants the same day-in, day-out, boring old routine? This is accentuated if you have kids because they can monopolize so much of your time and energy. I discovered not so long ago just how true this is and how important it is to work on our relationship and not allow it to get old or stagnant.
After nearly destroying my marriage due to a serious lack of “spice,” I found some really simple but amazing ways to give our relationship some real pizzazz! The beauty of this is that he began to reciprocate and we now continue to have fun thinking up new and creative ways to let the other know just how special and important we think they are. Following is just a taste to get your own creative juices going. Here are some great techniques on how to spice up a relationship:
- Make it a point to look into your significant other’s eyes for long enough to have him or her ask you what’s up. Then simply say “You amaze me.”
- Write something you love about your partner on the mirror with lipstick – like “I love the smell of your hair” or “I love how you make me laugh”.
- Think of something that your partner is passionate about and, even if you are not, set up a little “surprise date” around that thing he or she loves.
- Plan a party with his/her favorite friends “just because”.
- Give an unexpected body massage.
- Pull out photos of the two of you and reminisce. This is a great way to remind both of you about things you may have once enjoyed together and perhaps could start doing again.
- An oldie but goodie – deliver a surprise breakfast in bed!
- Flatter your partner in front of company often.
There are many ways to spice up a relationship and, even though “it takes two to tango” as the old saying goes, it can definitely start with just one party to the relationship. Let it start with you! You may be very surprised how it will be received and reciprocated! Don’t wait for the other person to initiate – place enough importance on the relationship to put forth the effort first. If both of you are waiting for the other… well seriously, that’s not what it’s about is it?
If it is, you are sure to be disappointed time & again. Besides, it’s quite fun to be the one to start the spice and the rewards are worth more than their weight in gold when your relationship is important. And it must be or you probably wouldn’t have wasted your time reading this right?
Now that you know how to spice up a relationship, go do it!
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