SHOCKER: Jennifer Lopez, Marc Anthony to divorce!

Whoa, in the best kept secret ever, Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony just announced they’ve split. In a joint statement first obtained by PEOPLE, they said “We have decided to end our marriage. This was a very difficult decision. We have come to an amicable conclusion on all matters.”

Lopez, 41, and Anthony, 42, married in 2004 and have two children together. Their relationship seemed to hold steady in

Hollywood terms anyway — this coming after Lopez’s high profile relationships with Sean Combs, Ben Affleck and failed marriages to dancer Chris Judd and Ojani Noa.

This will the second divorce for Anthony.

They last performed together on stage during Lopez’s much talked about stint at American Idol.