Jude Law, Sienna Miller and Sadie Frost in huge haircut hubris

[HMG] – The connection between Jude Law’s ex-wife, Sadie Frost and his upcoming spouse, Sienna Miller has never been cordial, but the two actresses have lives so devoid of all purpose they’re now at war over a haircut.

Sienna, 28, wants Sadie’s seven-year old son, Rudy to be a page-boy at her upcoming wedding to Jude, so she took him to her favorite stylists and had his hair cut really short.

This got 45-year old Sadie so mad she’s now banned Sienna from a ballet recital next week.

Sadie and Jude had three children together during their six-years of marriage from 1997 to 20003, and the recital will feature their nine-year-old daughter, Iris, dancing alongside Kate Moss’s daughter, Lila Grace, who’s just seven.

“Jude was bringing Sienna to the recital, but Sadie put her foot down and said she couldn’t come,” a source told the Mail. “She’s had enough of someone else playing mom with her children.”

Sienna and Jude broke up in 2005, but reunited while working on Broadway last year. Now they’re planning to marry this Summer, and Sadie wants Iris as a bridesmaid, plus and Jude and Sadie’s two sons Rafferty, 13, and Rudy as the best man and page boy.

“There are many things Sadie’s angry about — Like Sienna making plans for her children to be part of the wedding,” says a friend of the pair. “Jude asked Sadie to meet Sienna to smooth things over for the sake of the children — but that was before Rudy got his haircut.”

Jude wants a small wedding in Vaudelnay, a tiny town of just 1,200 people, nestled in France’s lush ‘Loire Valley’ where his parents live.

“After such a long and rocky history, they want a low-key wedding. Jude and his parents want it to be held in the French countryside, so that’s what’s being discussed at the moment.”

There’s no date for the ceremony yet, but you can bet the bride and groom [and especially their reps] will keep us amply informed. So we’ll keep you advised…