A-Rod out shopping for new love confirming Kate Hudson split?

[HMG] – Compounding belief that their break-up is real, New York Yankees star hitter, Alex Rodriguez was spied in Miami this weekend, surrounded by girls who seemed keen to erase the pain of his split with Kate Hudson.

Spies tell Page Six the 34-year old ball player was “acting like a single man,” and partying with two young girls at the W Hotel on Fort Lauderdale beach late Friday. The following night, A-Rod was said to be focused on a [currently un-named] blond at the ‘Armani Exchange Sunglass’ dinner at The Delano on South Beach.

“A-Rod didn’t eat a thing because he was focused on this cute blonde…who looked a bit like Kate,” says an insider. “He literally didn’t take his eyes off her. The group then went to the Fontainebleau, where he still focused on her, but told other girls, ‘I’m definitely single.’ But he left with his old pal, Ingrid Casares.”

Meantime, A-Rod’s ‘ex’ lady, Kate Hudson was happily involved in an event of her own — On Monday she could be found breaking bread with Harvey Weinstein and her fellow cast of the new movie, ‘Nine’ at the ‘Per Se’ restaurant just off Central Park. Kate was happy, but tight-lipped on the split. Those around her, however, were happy to share;

“They’ve definitely broken up,” said one source. “There’s been drama before about his roving eye, but this isn’t the first time they’ve split up and got back together.”

And a split seems sadly confirmed by Kate’s weekend schedule; Instead of joining Alex in Florida she stayed in New York. On Saturday she was seen dining with her son, Ryder, and joined friends for brunch in Carroll Gardens on Sunday.

The former pair have not been seen in public together since the London premiere of “Nine” on December 3rd. That’s almost two weeks. If they’re planning a reunion, they’re sure taking their time….

Update:  By the way, US Weekly confirms (quote below) Hot Momma’s theory that Kate was up to her old relationship tactics and basically ran A-Rod off:

And while many reports claim that a jealous Rodriguez “smothered” Hudson, 30, the friend suggests the opposite was the case, observing, “She seemed compelled to track and follow his every move” during his busy pre- and post-season schedule.

Ultimately, the pal says that Hudson tried to give Rodriguez “an ultimatum” and to “fast track” the relationship. “He’s just coming off of a 13-year relationship with his ex-wife and a recent divorce,” the friend points out. “He has two lovely children with his ex-wife, and that requires a certain amount of responsibility. She gave him ultimatums that a newly divorced father can’t meet.”